easy on a friday evening.

Oh well. We’ve heard it all before. Enough with the dramas, with the constant conversations of who’s to blame, with being self-righteous (though others would like to think they are one, even if they’re not), with being judgmental, with being so uptight. We all should learn how to move forwards, not the other way around.

People need to grow; the need to mature is a vital aspect, to which we all should take note of. And the only way to do that is to liberate oneself from everything that is monotonous. We have to find ourselves in the midst of equivocal incidences, and meld our characters from the mistakes we’ve committed.

Learning is a never-ending process, and in pursuit of a higher-self, we must involve ourselves in everything, worth knowing. It is essential to become human, by that I mean, being someone who accepts his or her imperfections and be humble enough to acknowledge them.

To grow, one must free oneself from those unearthly decision-makings they stumble upon, without even a sound judgment to begin with. And we should remember, that some things ought to be private; so don’t go around starting your own fire, because it might burn you in the end.

Love yourself, and you’ll find it easier to do the same to other people. Respect yourself, and you’ll gain others’. Count the ways to which you become a better person. Learn to find happiness in the simplest of things, this way you keep your feet grounded.



Live for the right reasons. Don’t let yourself sink with regret because of not trying or giving something a chance to transpire. Take more risks but stand up to it and mean it.
Don’t think too much of what others might think. They don’t care, they won’t care. Give yourself the privilege to choose what you want to do. You owe that to yourself.


Listen to your brain, speak with your heart. That I think is the big difference, of people who have found their way and those who are still uncertain of which road to take.



And just a thought: when it comes to relationships, it is better to just shut up and be humble enough to say you are at fault -- than let your egos clash; and then end up with broken hearts. Be with someone who is willing to have your back, no matter what. Be with that someone who is worth fighting for.