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Someone said, that: life, is not about “fitting in”, it’s about appreciating that you are different, and all of us are. We have to realize that there is more to what is beyond us, that we have something else other than just our superficial facets. We have to understand that we are far more precious than we think.

Scott Peck once wrote that “life is difficult”. It is difficult. It is very difficult. But once you get out of your way to seeing life’s difficulty as something far more elusive but is of worth, then may be, you would know what life is to you. When we’re in a situation that demands us more than what we expect, we feel scared, to the point that we would give up something we shouldn’t have. But if you actually push yourself to doing the unexpected rather than just waiting for someone to pull you up, then definitely you’ll be up there waving your own flag of success.

Being judgmental can sometimes blind you to what the actual thing really portrays. Sometimes you have to dig deeper to what the naked eye sees.

Life, is not about “fitting in". It is about appreciating yourself in your own terms and not letting others manipulate the way you see things as they are. As you are. For one thing, we all are hoping to seek new avenues to explore, to take a chance to be different. And to take risks. After all, true is the saying: no pain, no gain.

You don’t have to change anything. Dare to be bold. We have to learn how to cross boundaries, to walk on intercessions and be brave to fight for our right. So be real. Be your own unique person. It would definitely change the way you see your life now, and make those screwed up situations seem worth everything you work hard for, more meaningful even just in ordinary ways.